I love this time of year for many reasons. It is a wonderful time to celebrate life, enjoy relationships and look forward to a new year, which could mean a new “do over” if we felt the past year was tough. I especially enjoy taking time to reflect on what I would change and how I will strive to be a better person next year.
Added in the mix this year is my love for my crazy dog, Louie! This time last year, we had been together for a couple months and were still figuring each other out. Now, I look at him and wonder what his life would have been like had we not met. We still have a lot of work to do together, but I believe he is so much better off today than he was this time last year.
I am also reminded of the relationships I no longer have. Louie would not be with me if I still had my sweet little Bichon, Cece. And what would life be like if my mom and dad were still alive to see MY grandchildren? Both my parents have been gone 20+ years, yet I still miss them and remember clearly the Christmases we shared.
Our little Cape Cod home nestled in a suburban cul-de-sac brimmed with energy for weeks, beginning with Christmas Eve. We would have a large celebratory meal and all eight of us would pile into the Edsel to go midnight mass. Afterwards, family and friends would come to our home while we kids were hustled off to bed so we wouldn’t “delay” Santa.
We would awake predawn and run down the stairs. We realize now that our parents stayed up all night putting toys and bikes together to surprise us. With six children and a father who was an officer for Cincinnati Police Department, that was a magical feat in itself. But surprise us, they did. And there was always a really “big” gift that would take our breath away at the end of our wrapping paper frenzy. Even our faithful dog, Smokie, would join in on the fun discovering the dog treats my mom wrapped for him to uncover.
More family and friends would come over for a brunch that would last for hours. Once again, we’d pile in the car and head to our grandparents’ home for another large meal and fun times. We sometimes stopped at an uncle’s home and once we kids called it a night, there were even more people who would come and visit with mom and dad.
I can’t imagine how they did it all, but my mom and dad enjoyed life to the fullest, and I will always appreciate that about them. I honor their memories by celebrating Christmas with the same vigor, love, laughter and life.
Sadly, life includes necessary endings. Saying goodbye to my parents, experiencing other tragic losses too painful to mention, and bidding farewell to one too many furbabies I’ve carried in my arms means I have closed the chapter on a part of my life but am opening a door on another. Louie represents one more chapter in my life, and he brings me incredible joy. And each chapter just keeps getting better, as I’ve shared with my daughter Marisa. I’ve enjoyed every stage of her life, but I believe this stage is the best so far!
As we close out this year, I am thankful for the life with which God has blessed me. I am reminded of the life God breathed into our world through Jesus Christ and the necessary ending he allowed so that we may have eternal life and have it abundantly. I stand amazed at the humble beginnings of a King and the necessary ending of a humble servant just so you and I can live life to the fullest. Don’t let searching for things that can’t last cause you to miss that remarkable miracle.
I pray you and your family have a blessed Christmas and a wonderful New Year. Louie and I will see you in 2015.
Thanks for sharing the memories and allowing me to recall my own, Danise! Here’s to creating more memorable times in 2015!
Thanks, sis!! And thank YOU for your encouragement and holding me accountable to WRITE!!! 🙂
Beautifully stated!
Thank you, Catherine! Merry Christmas!
Thanks Danise for being a great friend. My life is enriched by your presence. My prayer is God will bless you with new and exciting experiences for 2015.
Thanks, Lisa girl! I love being your friend! Praying for your 2015 as well. And I miss seeing you! Merry Christmas!
I truly enjoyed this especially since I know 3 of the 6 kids that you mention and know them all to be fine folks. Merry Christmas to you too Danise.
Thanks, Bernie! That means so much to me! Merry Christmas to you as well!
Whew! I felt just a little exhausted hearing about your Christmas traditions – but it was a good feeling (like the end of a day at Kings Island. 🙂 ) I also felt the warmth and love ~ thanks for sharing. And Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and richest blessings during the coming days, weeks, and months!
Thank you, Steve! Ha! I had the same feeling and I wondered how we did all that we did. And what fun we had! Truly blessed, indeed! I hope you and your family (and pups) have a wonderful Christmas as well!
thanks dear friend! this is lovely and a great reminder for sure!!
Thanks, my friend!! A reminder I need on a regular basis as well!
Love this! Thank you for your guidance and support! It is appreciated more than you know!
Thank you, Amy! I am the blessed one to spend time with you and the fabulous Prolanthropy team!
Glad you’re enjoying this stage of life!! Way to be in the moment!
Thanks, Erin! Trying to be in the moment 🙂 Good thing I have a fellow blogger to help me with that focus!!
Wow, great post Danise. You definitely have a gift with words.
Thanks so much, Tammy! That is quite a compliment and extremely encouraging! Merry Christmas!
Danise – Thanks for sharing. While life will bring about necessary endings, joy comes in the morning with beautiful new beginnings each day. Like your parents may you continue to live life to the fullest….see you in 2015!
Hello, Miss DeAsa!! I love that verse, thank you for the beautiful reminder. Looking forward to seeing you soon!